Comments on: The One Freak-Out Rule http://www.apeacefulresolution.com/the-one-freak-out-rule/ Stay gentle and useful in conflict and crisis Tue, 27 Jul 2010 04:07:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Andrew Lightheart http://www.apeacefulresolution.com/the-one-freak-out-rule/comment-page-1/#comment-203 Andrew Lightheart Tue, 09 Feb 2010 03:19:59 +0000 http://www.apeacefulresolution.com/?p=276#comment-203 The only thing I can think of for when everyone is freaking out is that it's the job of the person who notices to refrain. For me, that would, er, be me, not the other person. Not sure how implementable this advice is though... :) The only thing I can think of for when everyone is freaking out is that it’s the job of the person who notices to refrain.

For me, that would, er, be me, not the other person.

Not sure how implementable this advice is though… :)

]]> By: natasha http://www.apeacefulresolution.com/the-one-freak-out-rule/comment-page-1/#comment-202 natasha Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:41:20 +0000 http://www.apeacefulresolution.com/?p=276#comment-202 Smart stuff. I'd thought about how relationships were happier when you took it in turns to freak out/feel hopeless, I was always a bit unsure what happens when everyone freaks out (if it wasn't happening it was a potential future I could scare myself with). I like the idea that listening needs to be happening by someone in order for conflict to be reduced. Knowing when I stop listening will help me keep the peace. 'Refrain' really does need a reintroduction into common parlance. It's perfect. Smart stuff. I’d thought about how relationships were happier when you took it in turns to freak out/feel hopeless, I was always a bit unsure what happens when everyone freaks out (if it wasn’t happening it was a potential future I could scare myself with). I like the idea that listening needs to be happening by someone in order for conflict to be reduced. Knowing when I stop listening will help me keep the peace. ‘Refrain’ really does need a reintroduction into common parlance. It’s perfect.

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